by Emily Conrad
Long before I was born, a woman named Lillian purchased one item of china each week from the local store. In this slow and steady manner, she collected not just one but two sets of china, each to accommodate twelve people. She gave one set to each of her daughters.
My aunt still uses hers when she hosts the family for Christmas. My mom wasn’t using hers, so she gave it to me.
The china came to me in a cardboard box, wrapped in paper that had aged to the color of organic eggshells. I unwrapped piece after piece, surprised at the variety. Why in the world are there two sets of small bowls, one slightly larger than the other? I’m going to have to do some research.
Whatever the case, I’ve already unwrapped and washed a lot of dishes. They’re stacked neatly in the china cabinet I got to store vases and other similar, pretty-but-not-often-used items.
I’ve decided not to save the china for special occasions. The day I unpacked the china, I served myself a slice of cake and a cup of tea, all in the dishes my grandmother collected about fifty years ago. As far as I’m aware, that was the very first time they’d been used.
Later, I did something my grandma had no way of predicting one of her granddaughters would do, even if Grandma did expect that the dishes would survive this long and be passed down. I took a picture of one of the teacups and posted it to social media.
Not only did she not have the internet didn’t when she did the faithful work of collecting one plate, bowl, or saucer each week, photographs were also more of an occasion than they are now.
As I thought about the angle and the caption to use for my post, I realized the patient work my grandmother did so long ago is an excellent example for me today.
I’m much more used to instant gratification than she was. In direct contrast to my grandmother’s steady work of saving up a china set, I placed an order on Black Friday for a full modern dinnerware set.
Within a week or two, three boxes arrived, and just like that, the set was complete.
Unfortunately, this quick-success mindset carries much further into my life than the dining table.
It’s no secret that I’ve been in quite a struggle to write my latest manuscript, in large part because it’s taking me longer than I anticipated. I’d expected to “order” the story, sit down and write it, finish, and move on to the next thing.
But, the style is different than what I normally write, and the learning curve has slowed me down. Much to my dismay.
The night I unpacked grandma’s china, I sipped tea from Moon Mist patterned china and scribbled plot points on sticky notes and stuck them to a board, a desperate attempt to straighten everything out in my mind so I could fix what I’d written and hopefully, finally move forward.
When I photographed the teacup and saucer, I decided to put my storyboard in the background, since I used both at the same time. And it hit me that I’m playing a long game with this story. I’m saving up one plot point at a time and amassing them in a story and on a board in hopes that somehow, someday, God will use it.
This task I’ve taken on in faith is not an overnight process. It’s an investment for the future. It involves sacrifice and time.
I don’t know who will inherit this story from me, just like my grandma had never met me when she bought these pieces. I don’t know what kind of difference this story will make, just like my grandma had no assurance that the sets she provided her daughters would ever be used or appreciated.
Similarly, I don’t know what journey you’re on. You might be saving up days with your young children, corralling, refereeing, teaching. You might be adding one day after another behind an office desk. You could be planning a garden, teaching Sunday school, investing in friendships. You have dreams, but the work is long and slow. None of us truly know the larger picture God has for our lives.
But, I do know that God is faithful. I know that He calls His children to faithfully follow Him through tasks that sometimes seem hard or even impossible. He calls them on journeys that are often longer or more challenging than they expected. I know that in our weakness, He is strong, and He will fulfill His purposes.
So, as I struggle with this story, I believe God is telling me to relax and stay the course. To enjoy the journey and to stop expecting success to arrive via overnight delivery.
I’m saving up words. I’m stacking one scene at a time. I believe that God has a purpose as I wrap this story in paper and chapters and pack them away for that day in the future when He’ll choose just the right home for it.
What are you saving up? What has God given you that you are stewarding for some day in the future or some person you may not have even met yet?
Don’t be intimidated by the size of the task. God is bigger.
Don’t grow weary. Borrow strength from the Almighty.
Don’t lose hope. Jesus is faithful.
Store it up, one little piece at a time. Pass it on when the time is right. God can do great things with the small offerings of the faithful.
And God will exalt you in due time, if you humble yourselves under his mighty hand by casting all your cares on him because he cares for you. Be sober and alert. Your enemy the devil, like a roaring lion, is on the prowl looking for someone to devour. Resist him, strong in your faith, because you know that your brothers and sisters throughout the world are enduring the same kinds of suffering. And, after you have suffered for a little while, the God of all grace who called you to his eternal glory in Christ will himself restore, confirm, strengthen, and establish you. To him belongs the power forever. Amen. 1 Peter 5:6-11, NET
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Loved this, Emily! I so needed this today. I'm in the process of formatting my first novel for Amazon/Kindle and the roadblocks are driving me nuts. But I have a total peace about doing this! 🙂
Thanks for sharing your heart. I will pray that the Lord will give you clarity in His timing.
I've seen your posts about the process, Cheryll! It must be exciting work, but I can imagine it's daunting, too. I pray that your book will get into just the right readers' hands at just the right time! And thank you so much for your prayers, too!
Your grandma had long-term vision! I love your china and the story behind it. So beautiful. I think you're so right about how we have gotten used to instant gratification. We don't want to make sacrifices and put in the work, we just want results. But the best stories take time. 🙂
Oh, I like that phrase, Katie–long-term vision. I think you're right that the best stories take time. That goes for whether we're writing them or living them 🙂 Thanks so much for joining the conversation!
It's a humbling thought that something I'm doing, writing or saving today could be/will be passed on and achieve God's purposes for those who follow after me. Great insight, Emily!
I agree with everyone else, Great post Emily!
Good luck and God's blessings
Thanks for stopping by, Mary and Pam! So glad the post resonated with you. <3
Hi Emily, loved your story about your grandmother collecting the sets of china to give her daughters. My mother did the same thing. Every time she bought groceries she got a piece or two depending upon how much she spent of Noritake china. I remember the set my mom collected was blue and white with platinum trim. Once she had the full 12 piece place setting which included a dinner plate, salad plate, bread & butter plate, cup and saucer, soup bowl, cereal bowl, fruit/dessert/sauce bowl, the she got all of the serving pieces vegetable bowl, gravy boat, 3 different size platters, butter dish, salt and pepper shakers, creamer and sugar bowl, relish plate, soup tureen, coffee pot and tea pot. I remember it took a long time for her to collect the whole set.
Wow! That sounds like a beautiful set. And you've helped me by listing the pieces because now I realize what some of these different sized plates and bowls are for. Thank you! So glad you stopped by today, Adriann!
Thanks for the encouraging post!
This speaks to me on so many levels, Emily! As a parent, writer and Sunday School teacher, it encourages me to keep offering my small pieces of work to Him and trust Him to weave it into something beautiful.
Thanks for reading, Mia and Jerralea! I'm so glad it was encouraging.
So grateful for how God does take our small offerings to create something beautiful 🙂